How many times have you wondered how women think?
It's obvious that they think differently than us. And waaay too much!
Yes, they're smart, but they have a different way of viewing the world than we do.
They let their imagination go wild with (sometimes futile) WHY-NOTs and WHAT-IFs. Different than us, HOW-TOs are not necessarily their strength. Most times they have conflicting thoughts about their work, relationships, parents, children, food… about pretty much everything.
In short, you could say that women overthink.
Besides the conclusions of various scientific studies on how women think and behave, you'll find here a few short, hilarious videos on this topic - enjoy them and share this page with other men too, as rising the awareness of women's thinking and behavior patterns will make our own life easier ;)
Did you know that psychologists, sociologists, anthropologists, biologists and medical researchers studied and mapped the male and female brain for decades?
Here's what they found:
Beyond noticeable differences in brain anatomy and physiology, they discovered the cause of the great difference from us in how women think and behave.
Females develop different attitudes, capabilities, interests and character traits than males, largely because they are stimulated, rewarded and in general, socialized in different ways.
For example, while we are mostly independent, objective, competitive, logical, ambitious, concerned with rules and justice, able to make decisions easily, most women are less assertive and ambitious, but more empathic, creative, able to express tender feelings, well-equipped for helping and pleasing others.
Researchers have also demonstrated that while we're wired to value self-preservation (which explains why we sometimes find it harder to cooperate and see things from the other person's point of view), women are wired to focus on others and on avoiding to hurt other people - sometimes at the costs of their own well-being.
Think about it.
For thousands of generations women have been taught to care for other people and to expect men to care for them financially - this is still hardwired in their brains!
Whether or not they spend the same amount of time like us on a job, they still feel responsible for their family's needs.
Repeated psychology tests backed up by real life observations show that, for women, responsibility means doing things for others, as they put an emphasis on relationships. That's the reason they easily become overdependent on others, even prone to living their lives through others.
That's just how female brain is wired, determining how women think.
Take a look at this hilarious video, where marriage expert Mark Gungor shows couples that their problems may result from how men and women think differently:
According to relationship expert Alison Armstrong, creator of the popular "Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women" program, while men are "single-focused", women have "diffuse awareness" - pouring out in every direction.
According to her, it's women's diffuse awareness that causes the much-talked about multi-tasking that women are famous for. Women's awareness of many needs in their environment causes them to try to meet them all at once.
Want to understand why women can't relax till certain things are cleaned up or put away?
Why they are compelled to give small details and feel mistrusted when you don't?
Why they can feel threatened by your job, friends, relatives and hobbies?
What they think about during sex?
Take a look at these 3 hilarious short videos from Armstrong's highly entertaining weekend workshop Unlock the Mystery: Understanding Women:
Equally hilarious and enlightening for both genders, the workshop's DVD version of Understanding Women shows you in a fun and straight-forward way not only what women think, but how they communicate and relate to others, so you'll finally understand why your partner behaves the way she does.
This relationship advice can save marriages - even more, understanding how women think can restore love, passion and add astonishing depth and a great sexual dynamic to a rocky or stale relationship.
You know that we all grow and evolve continually, right? Believe it or not, the most important reason relationships fail is because one or both partners don't make the effort to move towards the other and grow together, as one entity: the couple. The only way to save such a relationship is to apply conscious effort to evolving it as a single unit.
Check now Unlock the Mystery: Understanding Women DVD set - you may want to watch it with your partner - not only will you both have an amazingly fun evening together, she will completely open up to you!
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