If you think that what women want in men is looks, or smarts, or money, or power - or all at the same time, think again.
Some shallow women do, it's true.
But the type of woman with whom you'd want to have a solid, long-term relationship is after something deeper than that.
Good women want good men: mature men who are on purpose and have integrity.
Let's take a look at what each of these three things mean; by the end of this page we'll have a practical solution for you.
"Mature" means you're a grown-up, man.
It means you're done with childish things like being cocky, complaining, casting blame and crying in front of women - these are among the things women dislike the most.
Next, let's take a look at the other two.
Women want to see a life purpose, goals... men with drive... men who want to make something of themselves and their lives. Your woman wants to see that you take charge of your life.
Just look at how women swarm around men with a passion - be it broke artists, business people who just start again from scratch, or political leaders on the run.
You thought it's the money? It's not.
Even if at first they are attracted, women soon lose interest in men who are satisfied with the way things are... men who think that their steady job at the office is good enough - after all, they make just enough money to pay the bills, the work is not too awful and the boss is okay.
What women want in men is to see some effort to grow.
So if you want to make women want you, stretch yourself - at least a little... start with sticking a toe outside your comfort zone - because you will never get anywhere new by staying in there!
Women also want to see that you apply this growth.
Whether it's a new, more challenging job or a part-time business, integrating newly-acquired skills in your life will communicate to her that you have ambition and drive. It will quickly separate you from all the Wannabes out there.
Why are so many men today looking for 'comfort', 'stability' and 'safety' (a woman's values), more than wanting to make a difference and achieve?
Because sadly, today more and more families are split. As (more often than not) mothers are the ones who get to raise the children, increasingly more young boys are lacking masculine role models in their family. As many good intentions a woman may have, she simply can't have "man-to-man" talks with her son.
If you've been reared by a father, you surely remember these talks - didn't they make a lasting impression on your character and values in life?
Remember, what women want in men is to see that he has a life purpose. A life purpose gives you a strong backbone, ambition and drive. It makes you respected by both women and men. You're a man who's "going somewhere". You're a man who's interesting, able to attract (and keep) any woman you want.
Integrity is that strength of character that commands respect from other men and inspires women's trust and their devotion.
Do you treat others how you want to be treated? Are you doing what's right even when nobody else is seeing you? Do you keep your word? Do you finish the things you start? Are you honest, not 90% of the time or when it's convenient, but 24/7?
When setbacks happen, a woman is watching your response: "Is he the strong character kind of guy to sit down, look you in the eye, and say, "OK honey, let's work this thing out"? Or, does he walk out and minds his own interests?
What women want in men is someone they can trust. Someone who is going to stick around and be there through the messy stuff too - because whether you like it or not, life is messy sometimes.
It's a fact that a lot of marital longevity and relationship happiness comes from your integrity. Just take a look at what Bryan from Authentic Man Program has to say about the power of integrity>>
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"Women marry men hoping they will change.
Men marry women hoping they will not.
So each is inevitably disappointed."