Believe it or not, what women want to hear depends on what kind of women we are talking about. And what kind of relationship you want to have with them.
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Okay, so your balls are happy. Then what?
How will you deal with the unavoidable terror of her cheating you with the next alpha male who has better pick up lines, better looks or a more expensive car, or even worse, with the mess this type of woman will (inevitably) put you through?
How will you deal with the lack of fulfillment of such shallow relationships?
However, if you're looking for a long-term, deeply rewarding relationship (or are in a relationship that could be improved) and want to learn what women want to hear - real women - exciting, smart, beautiful women who will love and respect you for who you are, read on.
Why are you here? What fires you up? What motivates you - beyond working on a job to get a paycheck to pay the bills? What drives you - beyond making more sales or climbing the corporate ladder to get a bigger paycheck to pay bigger bills?
"Without a conscious life purpose a man is totally lost, drifting, adapting to events rather than creating events. Without knowing his life purpose a man lives a weakened, impotent existence, perhaps eventually becoming even sexually impotent, or prone to mechanical and disinterested sex."
author of "The Way of the Superior Man"
In this post-feminist age, real women are NOT attracted by macho jerks (all spine and no heart) or nice guys (all heart and no spine). Real women want evolved men. Evolved men have a purpose.
Okay, perhaps you don't have a month-by-month, 10-year plan. But if you know what you want to do with your life, you've probably thought about where you'd like to be down the road. For example, if your life purpose is to raise a happy family, create art, a profitable business, or contribute in a major way to a worthy cause, you have to have at least a rough game plan, right?
In the beginning of a relationship, for the first few dates, cool stories from the past are fun. Sharing summer-camp tales and your first bike adventures works... Some chicks are going to eat that stuff up.
But if your relationship is at the point where you consider including a woman in your life plans, she's surely going to want to hear all about it, man. Sharing with her your dreams and goals for the future allows her to see what's beyond your daily routines and whether or not you're compatible long term.
No matter what you may read elsewhere, a real woman knows (and expects you to know too) that a fulfilling relationship is not at the whims of luck - it's based on using the principles of building happy, lasting relationships and having a plan.
You may have already told your partner that she's beautiful, sweet, sexy and rocks your world in bed. But if you want a partner beyond bed (and you're a lucky devil and actually got her), you'd better tell her specifics.
Appreciate the less obvious things she does that you like so much.
What's special about her? Focus on her key qualities: is she nurturing, cheerful, resourceful, optimistic, creative, spontaneous, well-organized, a good host? She will MELT at your heart-felt compliments spoken aloud - there's not a bigger turn on for her!
Is there something you'd like her to improve on? Praise her.
As opposed to us, who are motivated by challenge, women are motivated by praise. Daily praise is emotional food for women. Praise and support magnify whatever you want your woman to improve on.
For example, if you want her to smile more, avoid saying, "why do you frown?" Say instead, "I love it when you smile, it makes me happy when you're so radiant!"
Or, if you'd like to see her exercise more because you know she'd be healthier, avoid telling her that - she will feel not only rejected, but insulted!
Instead, go with her at the gym or take her daily for a power walk or tell her how much it turns you on when she sweats exercising.
Praise motivates her to change for the better. Try it. You'll see, what women want to hear is not rocket science.
So if you are beyond the phase of initial attraction, as your relationship grows, you need to adjust your conversation topic. If you don't, she will either think that you aren't ready for a deeper relationship, or don't really want to be with her - either way you risk losing her.
Want a practical guide on how to understand women, what women want in men and how to address what women want to hear? Check David Wood's Truth about Women >>
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"Women marry men hoping they will change.
Men marry women hoping they will not.
So each is inevitably disappointed."