Before looking at the most common 10 signs of cheating spouse, remember this: they are not proof of cheating in marriage - even when more than one is present.
So before you go off confronting your partner, make sure you get proof. Without proof, few cheating women will admit the truth.
And there's one more thing you should know.
Generally, women are not likely to have a one night stand. When unfulfilled, they are prone to emotional cheating.
As a result, most women cheat with men who communicate better, are more thoughtful, appreciative and understanding.
By now, you probably know the difference between physical and emotional affairs when your wife or girlfriend is cheating on you.
Here are some revealing signals that will help you figure out if your partner is seeing another man:
1. Sudden preoccupation with her appearance - She's suddenly obsessed with how she looks, joined the gym and began a rigorous program where before she wasn't interested in working out.
2. She has a new "glow" about her - Her makeover is abrupt and all-encompassing - she even changed from being conservative to being provocative.
3. Decrease in closeness - She starts pulling back, either physically or emotionally, along with displaying other signs from the list of 10 signs of cheating spouse.
4. She says she works overtime... but it doesn't show up on her pay stub. She's away from home, nights or on weekends, more than previously.
5. She goes out alone a lot to events and friends without inviting you. Even if she's not cheating yet, she may not want you around so she can flirt with someone.
This goes hand in hand with...
6. Becoming very protective of her mobile phone - She speaks in a low voice or whispers on the phone, finishes the call when you approach her and erases her messages and incoming calls from the caller ID.
7. She uses the computer a lot when you are not around - You don't need to hack into her mail to observe how she behaves online.
Does she use the computer excessively, especially after you have gone to bed?
Have you discovered an email account you never knew about and she refuses to share the password with you?
In today's world, this is one of the most common of the 10 signs of cheating spouse.
8. Her behavior just doesn't add up - Repeatedly she's not where she's expected to be, misses time she can't explain and you catch her lying about the details of the day or receipts for things you don't have.
9. Your intuition - Your gut feeling might be an indicator that something is wrong. If you've worked on overcoming jealousy but still feel something is not right and have a sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach or find yourself looking for excuses for your partner's behavior - pay attention to other things on this 10 signs of cheating spouse list and look for a recurring pattern.
Yes, pay attention to the signs and your instinct but make sure you don't confuse signs with proof.
10. Birth control - If you've had a vasectomy and find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet or condoms in her purse you don't really need any other proof.
After you've learned these 10 signs of cheating spouse, ask yourself whether you've given her reason to look for getting her emotional needs met with another guy. If you haven't done this already, take a look now at what do women want in a relationship.
If your partner is not getting her needs met, before she actually starts cheating on you she often displays a number of infidelity warning signs >>
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