Let's get this straight. Having great Alpha Male dating skills doesn't mean driving flashy cars, frequenting swanky restaurants or having half-naked, hot sexy women hang off your arm.
Essentially different than the cocky, aggressive, in-your-face behavior of typical Jerks, in contrast with the artificial "tactics" of Alpha-wannabes and on the other side of the spectrum than the feeble Nice Guys...
...the true Alpha Male behavior exudes confidence - inner and outer confidence, in every situation.
A calm, savvy poise emanating from a solid character, clear identity, and positive self-image.
The type that inspires confidence and trust in others, with a relaxed, authentic Alpha Male body language: gentle and firm at the same time, no matter how challenging the situation might be.
This is the Leader. Archetype of the King.
Have you noticed that these are distinctive Alpha Male characteristics women are irresistibly attracted to? These traits simply magnetize a woman's attention and interest.
If you've seen a true Alpha Male dating gorgeous women, you've certainly noticed how he projects a fascinating aura that these women gravitate towards, right? That's pure Alpha energy.
I know what you're thinking now. Is it possible to learn the Alpha Male behavior and body language?
But the real question is, how driven are you to develop your skills to experience this kind of powerful attraction with women? Are you willing to do the inner work required?
If you're highly motivated, then YES - you can learn Alpha Male body language and get skilled at talking and behaving with women in a way that creates irresistible attraction and deeper connection - even if you're shy or introverted. It's doable - most Alpha Male characteristics are acquirable.
Here are some tips to help you out.
1. Take the lead in any situation:
be proactive and follow through on suggestions you make. Don't wait for
a woman to initiate or decide. Act as if she'll follow you, and she
2. Adopt the Alpha Male body language: be relaxed whether you're standing or moving, like you're proud to be in your body (aren't you?). Don't slouch. Don't cross your arms and don't hang your fingers in your pockets; move your arms naturally around your body (and be ready to touch her at the right moment).
3. Speak softly, slowly and intently and hold her gaze when you're speaking to a woman. Be charming and playful - a little cheeky wit goes a long way. Be ready to laugh at yourself - it shows that you don't take yourself too seriously; that's an obvious self-confidence signal.
4. Play the role, dress the part: make an effort to look your best. You don't have to break the bank shopping, but being casually trendy sends the signal that you care to look good.
5. Accept both your strengths and weaknesses: you're human; this means you're not perfect. Don't beat yourself down because of perceived weaknesses. Improve what you can and accept what you can't. (And give yourself a high five for what you're good at!)
6. Use the powers of your mind: if you are the average Joe, some specific Alpha Male affirmations and visualizations will help you immensely to get you into the right mindset; as you think, so you are.
Keep in mind this.
Mastering the Alpha Male characteristics takes time. Don't expect to become a babe magnet overnight. You must practice, practice, practice.
To fully test this Alpha Male behavior you need to experience it in the real world. You can puff yourself up as much as you like in front of the mirror; but you must get out there, put these tips to work with real women - if you want to see any difference in how they react to you.
Effective Alpha Male dating skills are built on a solid foundation, on an authentic inner game. There are certain mental and emotional ingredients for dating success (as well as life success in each and every area) that you must have solidly in place. Consider shortening your learning curve with specialized training and coaching.
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