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4 Tips on How to Talk to Girls and Use the Attraction Body Language If You Want to Succeed with Women

Are you among the majority of guys out there who don't have a clue on how to talk to girls, how to make them laugh - especially when your relationship is fresh and you haven't had a chance to know them well yet? Or, you may be in a long-term relationship ruined by bad communication and could use some help in bringing it back from the brink of disaster.

Either way, when you really want to succeed with women but are blocked by not knowing what to say, awkward silences or blunders - followed by women losing interest or becoming frustrated with you - it's a bummer. 

Not to worry - your chagrin will be over after discovering here the answers to your questions and clear tips on:

  • what women want to hear
  • how to make them laugh
  • how to use the attraction body language
  • how to talk to girls to create...

...that conversation chemistry that make them open up, then escalates to genuine interest and attraction.

Let's take an example.

Say you walked inside a crowded room and caught a girl's attention; you can sense her gaze.

How to Talk to Girls to Create Conversation Chemistry

You know that she likes what she's seeing - because she's showing the typical signs of attraction: several types of flirt signals.

You know that the next step is to approach her and say or ask her something, right? But how do you use the attraction body language and how do you talk to her so that she becomes not only increasingly interested in you, but irresistibly attracted to you?

Start by getting these basic tips; you'll also discover a couple of tools to take your conversation skills to the next level - valuable tools proven to work. Every. Single. Time.

Let's get into it.

Tip #1 on How to Talk to Girls: Be Curious and Show Genuine Appreciation

Are you unclear about what women want to hear and worry that you have to come up with some out-of-this-world conversation subject?

Stop. The subject is in front of you. A woman's favorite topic is herself, so all you really have to do is become genuinely curious and ask some simple questions about herself.

For example:

Is she from around? She might say she's new in town; ask her where she's from, how she likes it here, what's her favorite spot, and so on.

Don't worry that allowing yourself to become curious could make you lose control of the interaction; it won't.

Pay attention and follow up on the little flickers of curiosity you get when she's talking to you and ask her about it; she'll be happy you are interested in her - especially if you use those specific words women want to hear.

Then, take the lead. Does she know the best place around to (fill in the blanks: go dancing, eat organic apple pie, watch street performers and fire-eaters, shop for scarves or souvenirs for people back home, etc.). She probably doesn't - offer to be her guide. Insist graciously.

As soon as you spot something special about her in what she's telling you, say it: admire, compliment or appreciate her. Appreciating something specific signals to her that you're actually paying attention. It creates an instant bond making her feel the growing connection with you.

Knowing how to deliver compliments graciously, without sounding phony is essential if you want to succeed with women. Genuine appreciation is what women want to hear before developing trust and starting to open up to you.

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Tip #2 on How to Talk to Girls: Use Your Active Listening Skills

Believe it or not, women listen differently than men. When guys talk, every little interruption is a distraction that breaks the train of thought, right? But for girls it's different.

Remember this

If a woman doesn't feel that you are listening to her, it makes no difference whether you're actually listening or not.

If you want to succeed with women you must remember this. To feel listened, they need to get clear feedback from you showing you're actually getting what they're saying.

So how do you show women you are listening and sincerely interested in what they say? Well, you must give specific active listening cues:

  • Look at her and suspend everything else you might feel like doing - no checking your phone, looking around, etc. (that's attraction body language 101)

  • Listen beyond her words to grasp the feeling content of what she's saying

  • Nod every once in awhile and say, "I see", "Uh-huh", "Wow", "Yes", "I hear you"

  • Every few phrases, repeat what she just said in your own words, to show her you really got it - and that you really can get in her world.

Tip # 3 on How to Talk to Girls: Be Self-Confident & Take the Lead

How do you show self-confidence? Before anything else, you must stop using words that convey shyness, nervousness or needing validation, like "maybe", "err...", "uhm..."

If she asks you what you want to do on Saturday, don't even think to reply with an attraction-killer phrase like "I dunno..." or "It's up to you". These are big TURN-OFFs for her.

Get this!

Nothing is less attractive to a woman than low self-confidence, lack of planning & indecisiveness.

If you don't have anything planned, be ready to think up something, anything, just to avoid saying those words.

She's talking to you, man - it means she's interested in getting to know you more. Don't mess it up by making your conversation dull and vague - or else, you'll quickly lose her interest.

Instead, banter with her for a while and start planning ahead inside your head. Then, dish out an offer she can't resist!

Tip # 4 on How to Talk to Girls: Make Them Laugh

Okay, so you are curious, appreciative, a good listener, self-confident and prepared; by now she actually starts to like you - perhaps even trust you.

But that's not enough; there's one more required element to open her up, making her lower the guard and surrender to the attraction she's starting to feel.

Did you know...

...that it's psychologically impossible to resist the attraction women feel towards a guy who has made them laugh genuinely for a few times?

How do you accomplish this? Make her laugh.

Think about it. It's just basic human nature to avoid pain and gain pleasure - more so for women.

What do girls do when they experience pleasure? They smile a lot and laugh. Laughter means pleasure and is created by humor.

Statistics show a shocking fact: 82% of women consistently rank humor as one of the top 3 qualities of men they want to be with. But the sad truth is, not many guys can be genuinely funny and make women laugh.

But making women laugh is something you can learn. (While having fun yourself!)

Just pick up Make Small Talk Sexy: Conversation Escalation - you'll learn not only how to talk to girls to make them laugh easily; you'll get stealth techniques to instantly build rapport with any woman (both physically and psychologically), so that she feels irresistibly attracted to you.

Plus, you'll discover powerful attraction body language instructions, how to adopt winners' body language in communication, flirting insights - all the tools you need to make any woman fall in love with you, at will. Getting this (almost secret) knowledge in such a convenient format is a no-brainer when you want to succeed with women, don't you think?

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