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10 Types of Flirt Signals: Guys' Guide to Cracking Women’s Attraction Body Language

The following top 10 types of flirt signals help you understand women's nonverbal messages - whether you've been married for a long time or completely inexperienced with women, check these out to end your confusion for good!

Can You Calibrate Accurately Women's Types of Flirt Signals?

You may not realize this, but women do everything for a reason - some gestures are deliberate, some are unconscious (and automatic). The way they stand, the way they sit, the looks they give you - all of these carry loads of nonverbal messages.

We've compiled the list below for you so you can get good at understanding women body language and read accurately their flirting signals of attraction.

When you do, you become able to flirt successfully with any woman, get closer to her and avoid the crushing blow of getting rejected.

Remember, flirting is not an exact science; it can be complex and elaborated, or as simple as sending your sweetheart a couple of flirtatious text messages.

Keep in mind that at any time, a woman will give several signs of flirting - depending on how bold she is and how much she is attracted to you - but if you don’t know what to look for you’d never know.

Beware! With women, it's very easy to misread friendly gestures and interpret them as flirting signals of attraction and get into trouble. So pay attention - none of the following flirting signals is to be interpreted in isolation of other gestures and taken out of context; you should look at them cumulatively. (It's vital to remember this!)

Notice at least 4 of these types of flirt signals? Then you can be (almost) certain the girl is inviting you to go forward. Approach her and do a little flirting of your own, but tactfully.

Why tactfully?

Because appearing aggressive or cocky when a woman is flirting with you turns her off immediately.


Avoid being accused of sexual harassment! The difference between flirting and sexual harassment is often blurred, make sure you don't cross this fine line. Here's the distinction to remember: while flirting with a woman increases the sexual tension between the two of you, sexual harassment leaves her  feeling offended and/or humiliated.

If the girl you're talking to makes it clear that your flirting is not welcomed, stop.


Persisting won't change her mind - on the contrary, she may accuse you of sexual harassment and you may even get into trouble!

You may also want to apologize. (Who knows, she might just change her mind.)

Okay. With all the bases covered, here's the knowledge you need for understanding women body language. Let's take a look at...

Women's Top 10 Types of Flirt Signals of Attraction

As you go down this list keep in mind that a girl's signs of flirting range from the very subtle to the most obvious:

1. She's glancing over or looking at you upwards while raising her eyebrows, which clearly signals she's interested. Or, she sends you a lingering look followed by either looking away or a starry, fixated gaze.

Types of Flirt Signals: Eyes & Look


2. She's blushing when you look intently at her - either in the cheeks or around the lower neck and upper chest area. Blushing is an uncontrollable reaction to an accelerated heart rate, a clear indicator of excitement and sexual attraction when she's around you.


Types of Flirt Signals: Blushing


3.  She's openly smiling with her whole face lit up while the outer corners of her eyes crinkle into "crow's-feet". She may also keep laughing and giggling at your comments or jokes (even when they aren't particularly witty or funny), while getting closer to you.


Types of Flirt Signals: Smiling & Laughing


4. She's displaying seductively various body movements: tilts her head to expose her sensuous neck area, plays with her ear, arches her back, strokes her body, licks her lips, moves ostentatiously her arms and legs - like the famous "leg cross".


Types of Flirt Signals: Seductive Body Movements


5. She's playing with her hair: running her fingers through it, wrapping it around her neck, curling it around her fingers, twirling it or tucking it behind her ears, taking it down and tying up again, tossing or flicking it away from her face or over her shoulder.


Types of Flirt Signals: Touching or Playing with  Her Hair


6. She's playing with accessories: rings, earrings, necklace or fiddling with a button of her jacket, with her scarf, belt - or even letting a shoe dangling off her toes. These are subtle but powerful signals that she's comfortable and relaxed (subconsciously willing to undress further).


Types of Flirt Signals: Playing with Accessories


7. She's provocatively stroking or sticking out her hips sideways and/or walking in a swaying way towards or away from you, unconsciously trying to draw your attention to her hips and pelvic area - that's one of the unmistakable signs of flirting.


Types of Flirt Signals: Provocative Hip Movements


8. She lurks around you in a social setting, bumps into you on the dance floor, seemingly accidentally. Or, she dances alone at a party or in a club - this spells out loud and clear, "I'm available and on my own" - don't miss this golden opportunity to approach her!


Types of Flirt Signals: Dancing Alone


9. She's leaning in closer to you while making eye contact, even mirroring your posture/gestures - this signals a LOT of interest. She may also be touching your arm, knee or face, playfully punching or teasing you, which is a serious sign that she's into you.


Types of Flirt Signals: Mirroring & Touching You


10. She's letting her guard down becoming playful, teasing, complimenting you, whispering in your ear, even engaging in double entendre (a word or expression with two meanings, one usually with a sexual implication).


Types of Flirt Signals: Teasing & Playing

Practice Makes Perfect

So there you have it, women's attraction body language explained - 10 signs of flirting in a gradual progression, from the most ambiguous to the most daring ones.

Since there are so many gestures to keep track of at one time, it's best to take 10-15 minutes daily to watch girls you aren't interested in and read their flirting signals; this way, interpreting accurately various types of flirt signals will become second nature pretty quickly.

Understanding women body language gives you the knowledge you need to not miss the tell-tale signs when a girl is really into you!

Her flirting signals of attraction communicate volumes in just a few seconds - although, as you've seen, women's signs of flirting are often displayed unintentionally and unconsciously.

Want to be certain that a girls is genuinely flirting with you? Remember these 10 types of flirt signals, follow your heart and enjoy the game!

A last thing.

Understanding women body language is just half of Alpha Male body language & verbal skills. The other half is knowing how to communicate to a woman that you're interested in her in a way that's NOT closing her off. To get skilled at this quickly (or if you aren't too sure about the nonverbal messages your flirting body language might send to women), check the failproof Flirting Formula now >>

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